Ever have those people that cry over the smallest things. OK, I can be sympathetic to them but sometimes I think they're just simply pathetic. A few bad things happen to them and suddenly its the end of the world. I know a guy who would seriously come to school and would act all down until someone (probably me) would give in and ask him whats wrong. Yeah I could speak on 'attention seekers' and the like, but this something further.
Crying and feelings of sadness are simply our body's way of protecting our mind from further stresses. That's why after a good cry we tend to feel a whole lot better. Lately though my mind has been wandering off on me on more important issues. I don't normally get caught staring into oblivion. But pondering and moping and not trying to get over it is the worst way to go about it. Acknowledge how your body wants to deal with it and decide whether or not its actually appropriate. I sometimes want to rage on certain days but I know that in a few moments it'll pass. Train yourself to handle a bad situation. Mum, Dad and friends are not always going to be there for you so if fall down you best learn to rub some dirt in it and stop telling the entire world you have a little boo boo. Honestly, when you see those facebook postings and when it comes down to trying to suck some sympathy out of people I think that's when you know who's been cradled for far too long.
Go latch on to your Mums nipple again. I'm sure she'd enjoy that.
Bad things are bound to happen and I understand that somethings like death are not the easiest things to deal with, I'm not trying to say get over it to something on that scale. But if you lost your little job, lost a wallet, got injured, had a car accident all things that are such small scale. Stop acting like such a pus wipe and don't try and burden someone else with minor issues. Your big enough and ugly enough to deal with it.
Welcome to bad day, go to sleep
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